本来，我们是相当肯定要在媛媛过了2岁不久后就把她送进托儿所，让她学习独立、学习群体生活。但是，最近她生的一场病，让我有点却步。
一个小小的孩子，生病了却不能说明自己哪里不舒服，想如何被安抚，只能通过痛哭来抒发自己的情绪。晚上因为身体不适而睡不着，要趴在妈妈身上寻求安慰。我的心，真的是揪成了一团。媛媛发烧了一个星期，今天终于完全退烧了。但是鼻子还是卡着浓浓稠稠青青黄黄的鼻涕，喝奶的时候还是要停顿下来张开口呼吸。心疼，心疼，心疼。
每个把孩子放进入托儿所的妈妈都说，进托儿所开始时一定会比较常生病。我一想到之前连续几晚的煎熬，我根本都不忍心了。如何让一个小小的孩子忍受更多身体上的折磨呢？不忍，不忍，不忍。
于是，和老公商量，等媛媛稍微再大一点再送她进托儿所吧。托儿所是肯定要去的。我们商量了之后，觉得明年11／12月的时候会比较好。那时媛媛大约30／31个月大，表达能力、适应能力、免疫能力都应该比较强。到时，再让她去过愉快的学习生活吧！
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Good to know that Jaimie is recovering.
Hi Angie,
Not to worry about your next year plan on Jae's schooling. Indeed they tend to fall sick quite frequent once they start CC. Since you are teacher, how about homeschool her?
mamatang: thanks!!:)
joyce: No no. I do not believe that home schooling is better. i believe that children learn better in groups. furthermore, school is more than just curriculum. they learn to socialise, pick up life skills, build confidence, take responsibilities, be independent etc. (if i promote homeschool i will be jobless you kn...heehee)
If you have more time not planning for 2nd child and childcare centre is near your mom's house, you can consider half-day childcare first, let Jae get used to it then slowly adjust to full-day.
that's a good suggestion, stardust. thanks. will consider that.
Hi Angelcow,
Indeed, if there is a caretaker who can look after Jaimie till she is older and able to converse her needs, then you can consider enrolling her to CC.
I am glad to hear your perspective on Homeschool.. : )
thanks,
astee
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