Heartbreak is
When you got to force a smile and put on a happy face while your baby is wailing with outstretched arms.
When you kiss your baby on her cheeks while saying goodbye, and you taste the saltiness of her stream of tears.
When you awkwardly spy on your baby through the windows, get clumsily spotted by her, and you have no choice but to turn your back on her as you hear her cry out "要爸爸！要爸爸！".
Please....
Unbreak my heart.
Please....
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Hi Clement,
Understand this heartbreak feeling,however, once you crossed this hurdle, the road ahead will be much easier.
Next time, Jaimie will be saying Bye Bye happily to you, mummy & por por when she goes school.
regards,
astee
Hi clement,
I was like tat when ivan started nursery. Is very "heartpain" but gotta hang on ya!
What I learnt when my kids started CC was that when you leave, you assure you child you will be there to be pick her up. She may cry but you keep your promise and be back. As time goes, they know at the end of the school hours, they will get to see you :)
It worked for me, how it will for you too :)
Well I understand this feeling very well.
Hee I used to cry too when I heard my son crying at the background. I will immediately msg my hubby to say how cruel I am....
You will get over it soon! Jaimie will chase you to work instead in week's time!
Awww..that's horrible and heartwrenching. I see that experienced mummies are assuring you it's normal so hang in there. That's just awful...sigh...
If u think today is bad....can I fore-warn u...MOnday will be worse... (after the weekend of no separation from mummy and daddy...)
As astee said....soon she will be full of smiles and asking to go to CCC even on Sundays...
Soon, teacher/laoshi will be have more weight in her education/life/speech/thoughts... (mmmm..jealous jealous)...
And she will use 'lao shi shuo..' to rebute you/coerce u to do give in to her...
thks for all the reassurances~
I am certainly not bearing any illusions whatsoever that what we're going thru now is the worst there'll be. Am prepared for things to continue going south before they head north again, as I'm sure it would. Just got to grit our teeth and press on with the journey alongside our little one.
I think I'd be more glad than jealous if she's learning from others besides Papa and Mama. That's the way it shd be. I'd want her to eventually realise that every single person around her can potentially teach her a useful lesson, or two.
Gambatte!
Clement needs to work on his stealth skills lah. On the first day, he slipped and fell when he was trying to move from behind one window panel to another. And today, he was spotted by the enermy. ohh.. i mean our little girl. sorry, i watched too much of clement playing "Siphon Filter" on his PS2 last time.
Hi Clement,
I feel your heartache as i read your post. Good that so many experienced mummies are giving your family moral support. =)
When my girl 1st started playgroup, we made it a point that grandma & mum CANNOT send her to school - cos' the separation anxiety is greater if she has to 'part' with pple closest to her heart (our own theory). Hence, my FIL & hubby are tasked to do the job. So far it works for us, at least she never cry...
I'm not sure if the same mthd is applicable to u tho, since i hv a feeling Jae is equally close to all of you?
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